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    SERVING A PURPOSE
    By Adam A. Hicks
    THE NEW MEXICAN
    Monday, May 22, 1995


    Waiting tables for a career is gaining respect, recognition


          How many times have you asked the person serving you in a restaurant, "What do you do?" or "Where do you go to school?" Most diners expect that working in restaurants is a temporary or part-time occupation for those serving them.

          However, for millions of people nationally - and hundreds in Santa Fe - the food service or hospitality industry is a real career option. Vivienne Wildes, founder of The Waiters Association, is striving to give those working in restaurants the respect, recognition, training and benefits that come along with other career choices.

          Wildes 37 has spent 20 years in the business of waiting tables both on the front lines and in management. She came up with the idea for founding The Waiters Association while getting her master's degree in Restaurant and Hotel Management from Penn State.

          She began the association with only $1,000 and a simple mission statement: "To upgrade the status of waiters in America to a career level."

          Wildes views the eveolution of waiting as part of the greater evolution of the restaurant and hospitality industry.

          Last week Wildes came to The Bishop's Lodge Hotel and Resort to give a seminar entitled " Building Foodservice Sales." The lecture here was the second in a six city national series sponsored by MasterCard for its merchants.

          Wildes focused on nuturing increased sales at restaurants. The seminar attracted nearly 40 restaurant workers and owners from the Southwest resion who were looking to hone the skills of their trade.

          According to Wildes, the American hospitality industry is "coming into its own" and there is a great demand for casual friendly dining that is anchored in a secure feeling for the customer. The trend, as Wildes sees it, has been away from country club dining to customer-defined services marked in the late '70's with regional dining and in the '80's with opulence and the act of "experiencing" dining.

          As far as current restaurants go Wildes says, "The server is a large participant in the game . . . There has been a turning of tables out of the kitchens into the front of the house."

          Wildes views these seminars as a step forward in the status for waiters coinciding with the development of the hopitality industry.

          She reinforces this by explaining that in a business plan for restaurants today you'd see service as part of the business plan which was not the case five years ago. The result is taht waiters need to be better trained and more dynamic in today's market than ever before.

          There are more people dining out now, which brings greater competition to the restaurant business and more demands for special needs. As a result, waiters are expected to play many different roles including sales person, actor, psychologist, caretaker and still keep an upbeat attitude and sense of urgancy toward serving their customers.

          Additionally, there is a higher level of fundamental knowledge both about the food and beverages that they are selling and about liability issues of serving alcohol and food to customers.

          Wildes sees the shills of the waiter as underdeveloped and underrated in today's world. She calls the shills of the good waiter "right brain" or "soft" skills that don't fit in with the more industrial structures of business. She feels that a waiter thrives on using these soft skills to proiritize multiple tasks, communicate effectively, negotiate clearly and get along with many different types of people. Her seminars drive at developing these talents in order to provide better training to those who make a living from their use.

          Beyond increasing the profitability of the waiter of the restaurant, Wildes sees her efforts to make waiters more respected as a profession as an all around winning proposition for everyone involved in the industry. As the role of the waiter becomes more important to all types of restaurants from those with five stars to the local diners, more attention is being given to the importance of this group and their contribution to the bottom line.

          Wildes stressed that the importance is not recognized either in respect of food service as a career or in terms of offering benefits to thses workers.

          To help correct that problem, Wildes - in addition to participating in thses types of seminars - publishes a 12-page newsletter 10 times per year for the association's members.

          The publication includes tips for waiters, profiles of other professional waiters, discount offers and other information she feels should be shared with the waiteing community. Her mission is to reach out and empower the 1.8 million waiters in America not by being a union organization but by educating and raising the self-respect levels of those in the profession.

          She keeps the dues for membership low ($20 annual and $50 lifetime) so that the maximum number of people will be able to participate as the word spreads of the group.

          The Waiters Association's toll-free number is 1-800-437-7842.

    -Adam A. Hicks

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