How
has media changed the way we view our friends and peers?
The
fact is that media has changed the way we view people in general. Whether
or not it has changed in a beneficial way has been a highly debated topic for
several years. The truth is that social networking sites are double edged
swords. They have many benefits such as maintaining long distance
relationships with relative ease. A good friend of mine is currently in
Australia and I am able to see how she is doing and what's new in her life at
her convenience. I can leave her a message if I want to start a
conversation with her or leave a "note" for her to see when she has
free time. This type of access to another person's life can be
overwhelming though. Some people may become insecure with their life
because someone else is having a great time and you are not doing much at this
point in your life. Others feel that it is necessary to post every
intimate detail of their life because they believe that their
"friends" will consider them boring or uninteresting. Still
others are afraid
that if you post something on these sites that the world will monitor and judge you. Those people need to know that while it is true
people can see everything you post, they can only see what you
post. My best piece of advice to people who feel that way is to post only
stuff that you want the world to see and in addition use the security features
on these sites to grant only the people you choose permission to view it.
And remember it is not required by law that you belong to a social networking
site.
How
has social networking altered your ways of interacting and engaging with
others?
I
quite enjoy how it has altered my ways of interacting and engaging with
others. As mentioned above it helps me to connect with friends who are
traveling the world, and I can see what my friends are doing at a glance
without having to pay anything or engage in small talk. Now, don't think
of me as a "Facebook stalker" I do talk with my friends and yes,
believe it or not, I have friends. I just prefer to talk to people face
to face. Many times, I will just send out a massive note to all of my
friends that I want to arrange a get-together. Social networking sites
make it infinitely easier to arrange these types of events. I use
Facebook as an information tool, nothing more. To be honest, I don't
understand how people can spend their lives updating their Facebook.
Tracy Davidson from NBC 10 in Philadelphia investigated this in the news clip
below.
Changed
your digital persona-identity, etc?
My
persona has pretty much remained the same. I am a normal 22 year old
college student who likes to party, watch football, and spend time with his
girlfriend. I don't know why people take this stuff so seriously and am
totally baffled as to the hysteria concerning the amassing of friends in order
to have the highest friend count.