Before attending grad school I was at a special conference BOF (birds of feather) session that was held to help answer questions about grad school, it was hosted by grad students, at different points in their studies, from schools around the country. For those who aren't familiar with these types of sessions, basically they are round table discussions. It was at this session that I learned how important it was for a student to find the right advisor. The advisor-student relationship can make the journey through grad school a great experience or one that is unpleasant.
I was very fortunate to have met my advisor Dr. Mary Beth Rosson when I came to the "meet and greet" weekend (I'm sure they called it something else but that is what I've been calling it since February). She actually sought me out in the crowd of students and immediately introduced herself to a fellow Texan. It's interesting how people who have connections find each other so easily. She told me that she had attended Trinity University (I've been there for seminars and graduation ceremonies) and even worked for IBM in Austin, Tx. Here we have another connection, my husband's uncle retired from IBM and lives in Austin. Such a small world!
Since that initial meeting I have learned a lot more about my advisor, I have been married 10 years longer than she's been married and she is just as proud of her daughter as I am of my two sons. She also loves animals; I couldn't leave my cat

(Sashi) in San Antonio but did have to leave my dog (at least my husband has someone there while I'm away.) Though, one of the major differences we have is with plants. My advisor can touch plants and they will live. With me, I can walk into a craft store and the artificial plants begin to wilt. Don't know why but just can't seem to grow a simple house plant. However, I figure if this is the only thing we don't have in common things should still work out between us. It was also interesting to learn that we both enjoy singing in choirs. I was actively involved in a choir many years ago (at least before I lost my voice). At this point, people would probably pay me not to sing. Hmmm, I might want to consider that at the end of the month to earn money...anyway.
The one thing that I would say surprised me the most about my advisor was that she is married to Dr. Jack Carroll. It all makes sense now when I look at the "evidence" in front of me but I never put it all together until she mentioned it in class that first day. I commend her for being able to work with her husband at the same institution and in the same field. My husband and I, while we get along fine, I don't think we could work at the same place.
Prior to arriving in February I had hoped to meet Dr. Rosson during the weekend events. Her research work played a part in my decision in applying to Penn State. Meeting her was important to me and I also wanted to confirm what I believed to be true. I had already determined that she would be someone I could talk to when I had concerns about my studies and also someone I would want to receive the advice and guidance I needed to complete my PhD here at Penn State. So far I have not been proven wrong.

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